She needs a complete recalibration of who she is when the pressure hits.
Because the issue isn't her effort.
It's the invisible weight she's been carrying under the jersey.
If your daughter is doing everything right, training hard, pushing limits, performing at a high level, but still hasn't untapped her full potential...she might feel stuck in her head, tight in her chest, or lost in the noise of comparison...and have no idea how to shift it.
This isn't about discipline.
This is about Identity.
Because being dominant on the ice starts with deep identity work off the ice.
Welcome to the only high performance coaching experience that doesn't just teach her how to think differently...
It transforms the version of her who is doing the thinking.
This is the NeuroEnergetic Mastery Method.
A full spectrum shift in how she leads, performs, and shows up under pressure.
This isn't about high-performance hacks.
Or recycled mindset tips.
This is identity work that reprograms her nervous system and mindset from the inside out, so high performance becomes her natural state.
You know your daughter is a force.
Driven. Disciplined. All heart.
But lately, something’s felt off—and no one’s really talking about it.
She's harder on herself than any coach could ever be.
Even after a great game, she points out what she missed.
The wins don’t land.
The joy doesn’t stick.
Because somewhere inside, she still doesn’t feel “enough.”
She’s caught in emotional whiplash.
One day she’s flying, the next she’s spiraling.
You’ve seen her confidence collapse after one comment, one bad shift, one moment of doubt.
It’s not about resilience—it’s about the pressure she’s absorbing and doesn’t know how to release.
She’s replaying every mistake like a broken record.
That one turnover. The side-eye from a teammate. The missed play.
She overanalyzes everything—and it’s draining her energy, even when she's off the ice.
She wants connection, but shrinks herself to belong.
Social dynamics are brutal in elite sports.
You’ve watched her tone herself down to “fit in,” even when it means losing touch with who she really is.
She’s grinding herself into burnout.
She can’t rest without guilt. Her body is exhausted but her brain won’t turn off.
And underneath it all, she’s scared that if she slows down, she’ll fall behind.
She fears mistakes more than she craves greatness.
You see the hesitation. The holding back.
She’s not lacking skill—she’s lacking safety in her own mind and body when the stakes are high.
She’s chasing confidence through comparison.
Even when she’s succeeding, she’s scanning the room to see who’s doing better.
She can’t stop measuring herself against everyone else—while quietly losing sight of her own magic.
She’s may appear stoic on the outside—but is actually absorbing everything.
She doesn’t lash out. She internalizes.
But you can feel the tension under the surface.
The pressure she carries, silently, every single day.
You’re seeing glimpses of her potential—but she can’t access it consistently.
One shift she’s electric.
The next? She’s frozen in her own head.
And she doesn’t know why it feels so hard to unlock that version of herself again.
DEEP DOWN, SHE'S NOT ASKING FOR MORE CONTROL.
She's craving internal freedom.
The kind that lets her breathe under pressure.
Trust her gut.
And play from who she is—not who she thinks she has to be.
That’s the transformation this method delivers.
Her calm becomes unshakeable.
Her leadership becomes natural.
Her power becomes internal.
This is not another mindset course. It’s not just about routines, habits, or positivity. This is identity-level transformation designed for elite athletes navigating the pressure, social dynamics, toxic politics, and personal toll of high-level sport.
Real-time recalibration inside deep, high-touch sessions—designed to unwind the perfectionism, pressure, and emotional patterns keeping her stuck
✅ Energetic & Nervous System Realignment
She’ll learn to reset her body’s response to pressure so she performs consistently—without crashing or spiraling.
✅ Identity & Leadership Expansion
We move beyond “mental toughness” into authentic confidence, emotional intelligence, and embodied leadership.
✅ Custom Tools to Rewire Her Response to Pressure
She’ll recover faster, respond calmly, and access her best self—on and off the ice.
✅ Support that Sees the Whole Human Potential
She’s not just an athlete. She’s a leader in the making. This work sees all of her—and activates her full power.
As a former Queen’s University varsity hockey player and USports national bronze medalist, I understand high-level pressure.
And I know what it costs when your nervous system is on overdrive and your self-worth is tied to performance.
Now, as a NeuroEnergetic High Performance Coach and Doctor of Chiropractic, I’ve helped elite athletes around the world unlock their potential—not through more effort, but through alignment.
This isn’t surface-level coaching.
This is realignment at the frequency of Mastery.
"You changed my son's life."
-KD, Dresden, ON
"I don't second guess myself anymore. I trust myself a lot more. I have a lot more patience and poise. Everything has dramatically changed in a good way."
-DW Calgary AB
"I feel ready to go every shift."
-TL, Kingston, ON
"I've never done anything like this before. Before I can see that we were playing to not lose, now we are playing to win."
-TA, IIHF, Team Switzerland
"These coaching sessions are life changing."
-BD, Ontario
"You are an alchemist. What you are doing is truly magical. It really really really really works. I just want to express my gratitude for what you are doing. I’ve definitely noticed I just feel so much calmer."
-MR, Ontario
"That clearing was insane!!!! I legit feel like I have my power back. You are the only person that has been able to shift me at this level"
-WB, Perth Australia
Right now, there are two ways to plug into this work:
Private 1:1 Coaching Every journey starts with the 3-Month Energetic Recalibration Intensive. This is the foundation—the deep identity, mindset, and nervous system recalibration that shifts her performance (and life) from the inside out. If continued support is needed after the initial 3 months, custom extensions may be available by invitation. There are options to add on additional weekly sessions. In the Discovery Conversation we will discuss what the best option will be based on your goals, your challenges and how quickly you would like to experience results.
Private Audio Membership for Parents For parents who want tools, insights, and mindset support behind the scenes, I offer a private, members-only audio space. This is where you’ll get direct access to powerful mindset shifts, nervous system regulation tools, and deeper understanding of what your daughter is moving through—all designed to help you support her transformation with confidence.
What kind of results can we expect?
Every athlete is unique—but the common thread? You’ll feel it.
• More emotional resilience under pressure.
• Quicker recovery from mistakes.
• Deeper confidence—not just in her sport, but in life
• A noticeable shift in how she carries herself on and off the ice. This isn’t just about playing better. It’s about becoming unshakable.
Can this be covered by health insurance?
No. This cannot be billed under Chiropractic Care or Therapy. Dr. Shelby does have payment options that you can discuss in your Discovery Conversation.
While my background is in elite-level hockey, the Energetic Recalibration Method transcends sport. If your son or daughter is an elite performer facing high-pressure environments, this work will meet her exactly where she is—and take her beyond it. I also coach parents.
This is not surface-level coaching. When your daughter steps into this experience, she receives:
Weekly Private 1:1 Coaching Sessions (60 minutes) Deep recalibration work—identity, nervous system, and mindset realignment in real time.
Unlimited Support Between Sessions Access to Dr. Shelby via text and email for real-time shifts, questions, or recalibrations as challenges arise.
Weekly Accountability Check-Ins Gentle but precise nudges to keep her anchored in her growth, even when life gets loud.
High-Performance Workbook Custom tools, prompts, and recalibration exercises designed to deepen the work between sessions.
Parent Weekly Updates Every week, parents receive a high-level summary: what we covered, shifts we’re seeing, and where we’re focusing next—so you stay connected to the process without disrupting her growth space.
This high level of support creates an environment where true transformation isn't just possible—it’s inevitable.
There’s no set age limit. It’s never about a number—it’s about alignment. When you apply, we’ll have a conversation. If your daughter can answer my core questions —even if she's nervous—then I know she’s ready for this work. Because results aren’t created through age. They’re created through resonance, readiness, and the willingness to meet herself. If that spark is there, the transformation will be too.
That’s normal—and expected. The Energetic Recalibration Method is built to meet her exactly where she is, without pressure, pushing, or forcing. We will also make sure we are an aligned match to work together in the Discovery Conversation before taking any steps forward. When we do move forward and either your daughter or I decide that we are no longer a match to work together, you can request a refund for any unused sessions.
Before any investment is made, you’ll receive a full financial agreement outlining all terms clearly—so everything feels grounded, transparent, and aligned from the very beginning. This isn’t about locking anyone in. It’s about building a foundation of mutual respect, clarity, and trust—right from the start.
All coaching sessions are done via Zoom. Each session is built around what will create the most impact for your daughter right now. While I do have a core curriculum designed to shift identity, nervous system resilience, and leadership embodiment, I don't force a rigid structure. I meet her exactly where she is—and weave the teachings into whatever is the highest energetic and emotional priority that day. Some sessions may feel like deep recalibration work. Others may feel like tactical energetic upgrades. All of it is intentionally crafted to move her forward—based on who she’s becoming, not just what she’s doing. In this space, the curriculum serves the athlete—not the other way around.
Once your daughter is accepted into the program, we find a time that works for both of us. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all schedule. We collaborate to create a rhythm that supports her training, school, and recovery needs—without adding more pressure to her life. Consistency matters—but so does honoring her real-world demands. This work is built to integrate into her world, not overwhelm it.
The best time is now. This work isn’t an add-on. It’s the foundation. The Energetic Recalibration Method strengthens and magnifies every other investment you’ve made in her growth—training, camps, nutrition, the best equipment, skills development. Because when her identity, nervous system, and internal leadership are recalibrated? She doesn't just use those resources more effectively— she transforms because of them. These tools don't just impact this season of her life. They have the power to shift the entire trajectory of who she becomes—on the ice, and far beyond it.
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